Megan Skelding Megan Skelding

Stress Isn’t the Villain - Here’s How to Shut It Off

Stress isn't the villain. It's your body's alarm system, doing exactly what it was built to do. This episode, we get into the actual tools to shut that alarm off.

Last episode, we learned stress isn't the villain. It's your body's alarm system, doing exactly what it was built to do. So in Part 2, we get into the actual tools to shut that alarm off. Because here's the catch: your nervous system is still running ancient software, waiting for an "all-clear" signal that modern life never quite sends. The stress just… stays.

We walk through the surprisingly simple, occasionally ridiculous ways to send that signal yourself: cold water and the diving reflex, breathwork, the vagus nerve, your window of tolerance, and using your values as home base. Some of it sounds strange. All of it could work.

  • Why your body never gets the "all-clear" — the stress that outlasts the stressor

  • Completing the stress cycle through movement, not just problem-solving

  • Cold water & the diving reflex (a DBT "TIPP" skill)

  • Breathwork, including Wim Hof–style breathing

  • The vagus nerve & the tongue-out trick

  • Yin yoga for down-regulating

  • Your "window of tolerance" and why it shifts day to day

  • Using your values as home base when stress knocks you off center

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Megan Skelding Megan Skelding

Stress Management: Understanding Good Stress vs. Bad Stress (Part 1)

Everyone says, "Just relax." Has that ever actually worked?

Everyone says, "Just relax." Has that ever actually worked? In Part 1 of our stress series, we argue that stress isn't the villain—it's an alarm. We discuss good stress versus bad stress, your window of tolerance, the "smoke detector" in your brain that can't distinguish burnt toast from a house fire, and one genuinely wild fact about what your stress sweat does behind your back.
Your challenge: find us on Instagram @adjustmentalhealth and tell us who your stress really is. If your stress were a villain, who would it be? A Voldemort? A slow, polite email? A Loki who swears he's helping? Cast it. We're building a rogues' gallery.

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Stella Kitchen Stella Kitchen

Why Chasing Happiness Makes You Miserable: How to Redefine What It Really Means

We explore the constant pressure to “keep up,” achieve more, and stay on the never-ending train of expectations.

What if the way we’ve been taught to chase happiness is actually what’s keeping us stuck? In this episode, we explore the constant pressure to “keep up,” achieve more, and stay on the never-ending train of expectations. But what happens when you step off? Join us as we unpack what it really means to redefine happiness, slow down, and choose a life that feels aligned instead of just accomplished.

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Megan Skelding Megan Skelding

How Sleep Affects Mental Health: What Happens to Your Brain When You Don’t Rest

On this episode, we explore sleep! What it does to your mind, why it matters to your mental health, and more!

On this episode, we explore sleep! What it does to your mind, why it matters to your mental health, and more!

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